Tell me a Story

I started dating men wen I was about 17 years old. When I was 18 I fell in love for the first time. He was very passionate, a little too passionate sometimes. We weren't a very good match for each other and split up. For a time after I felt like my whole world had ended and that nothing could take away the feeling of a broken heart, but I got over it and picked myself back up again.

I started dating again and met a man, a few years older then myself, and soon into the relationship realised things were not as they seemed. Turned out he had a wife! Having experienced some bad relationships I decided to try Internet dating. All the men in my area seemed pretty much the same, and I wanted something different. I was still young at the time and was enjoying dating men but wanted to date different men. Men that didn't live in the same town as me and had a different life some where else. So I joined a dating site.

I found it all very exciting and would hurry home from work to get online to see if I had any messages. There were a few men on there which seemed very interesting, so I had messaged them. Finally a week after messaging them I got a message back from 2 of the guys. They were currently online so I spent a few hours chatting to them both. It's a good way to get to know someone a bit before deciding to meet up with them or not, and also I didn't feel like I was dating a complete stranger either.

I met up with them both and they were miles apart from the other men I had been dating up till that point. It was fun dating men who came from different places and had different outlooks.

After a few dates with different men, I got a message on the site from one of the men whom I really liked the sound of. I saw his picture and found him very attractive. We sent a few messages back and fourth, and decided to meet up.

The date went great and we got on so well. He was lovely and really made me laugh. A few days later he cooked me a wonderful meal and we sat and chatted for hours about anything and everything, including what we wanted out of life. From then on we have not looked back. We are now living together and are planning our wedding. It was definitely worth dating men for all that time, as I never would have found the man of my dreams.